Loving With Purpose

The Journeys You Take | The Choices You Make

Loving with Purpose, “So What’s It About?

This was the question asked over and over at my most recent events; an expo and a fundraiser.

If you’ve ever wondered what my book, Loving with Purpose, is about, let me tell you…

Because of the title I chose (Loving with Purpose), many people believe it might be a religious book. It is not. It is a relationship book.

A book about the relationship you have with yourself and with others.

With that said, I do share small pieces of God in my book, (e.g. Chapter 12: Touchy Topics), but mainly you will read about you and your relationships; a self-help book aimed at helping people find peace and happiness within themselves and with each other.

This does not mean I won’t share religious viewpoints on my website…in my own way. Mostly, from the words of spiritual and religious leaders who I’ve come to respect and trust. I believe, without a doubt, that my life, that the relationship I have with myself, is totally defined by the ways of God.

For this reason, I share what I find helpful, to me and for others, on my website, Loving with Purpose, and other media outlets. God is a part of Loving with Purpose. It has to be…since my belief system is based on His words. Sure, I don’t do anything to perfection; no one does, but I learn more every day and want to share what I find useful.

Although I knew some people didn’t really understand what the book was about, through my most recent expo and fundraiser events, I learned that for certain. I needed to let people know.

I felt it necessary to share the fact that Loving with Purpose, my book,  is not based on religion. It is, however, based on personal awareness, self-worth, and success…and although I talk very little about God in the book, I know He is a big part of our journey.

So, that’s it! I just wanted to give more clarity to you about the purpose of my book, Loving with Purpose. I hope you take the time to pick up a copy and check it out for yourself.

If you want to learn more about Loving with Purpose, take a look at the Table of Contents, or peek under About Me to see what I have to say for myself. :)

To read more on dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.

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May 27, 2012 Posted by | Links For Your Journey, Dating and Relationships, Quotes To Inspire, Change, Helping Others, Friendship, Family, Abuse and Neglect, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

Excerpt from Loving with Purpose ~ DIVORCE, DATING, BLENDING, AND OTHERWISE

Women and men alike hope for the best when they enter into a commitment. How about you? Did you ask the right questions before entering into your union? Did you really look at your mate; his character, beliefs, values, and goals? You should ask these, and many more questions, before committing, especially when children are involved. Should you put all of your efforts into this endeavor, and should you put your future on the line? If you are already in a committed relationship, then the answer is yes, you should do your best to keep it together. If you’re just starting out, then take a good, hard look at him, before committing your future.

The good news is that today’s divorce rates have slightly decreased. The bad news is that the statistics don’t necessarily mean relationships are more stable. Let me explain. First, I wasn’t aware that the divorce rate had declined until I went searching for the data. Then, I wanted to understand why the numbers had declined, when there seemed to be so much conversation about divorce these days. According to the National Center for Health Statistics’ (NCHS) National Vital Statistics Report, May 2009 an estimated 3.4 (out of 1000 people) of marriages ended in divorce out of the 44 states polled in the United States.

After hours of endless research on the topic, I found that some of the reasons could be that there are fewer marriages happening each year and more people living together. I also think people are waiting longer to tie the knot than in previous decades. Regardless of the reason for the decreased rates, it is good for marriage to be taken seriously.

If you have had a relationship that went bad, whether you were married or not, is it possible that you could have kept it from going into the ditch simply by being present during the moments? Just think about it…

To read more on this subject, dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.

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May 16, 2012 Posted by | Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

Loving with Purpose Pictures of Cincinnati’s Women’s Health Expo ~ Saturday, May 12th

I had a really good time at the Cincy Chic expo event. I met a lot of interesting women and found a few connections for future events. Thanks to those who stopped by to take a look, subscribe to my website, and even bought a book! I hope our paths cross again.

Take a look:

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Come visit me at this year’s Women’s Health Expo on Saturday, May 12th at The Phoenix in Downtown, Cincinnati.

I’ll be offering up some self-awareness and relationship information to women along with a trinket or two…just for dropping by!

Stop by for a quick hello or stay a while. While you’re there, pick up a copy of Loving with Purpose…for yourself or someone who could use a boost to their self-worth. Relationships are hard, and being able to bring your best self to any situation is a must.

I look forward to seeing you there.

Kimberly Mitchell

May 15, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Events & Happenings, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Links For Your Journey, More about Me, Religion and Spirituality, Tell Her About It | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

Loving with Purpose Invites You to the New Miami Fundraiser

Come visit me at the New Miami Fire Department Cadet Fundraiser on Sunday, May 20th from 1:00 pm to 5:00 pm.

New Miami wants to get the kids involved in their local fire department. Sound like a good idea? I think so. To start them off, New Miami Fire Department is having a fundraiser to start a fire cadet program for their youth. So, please save the date and come out to support their kids and their Fire Department.

There will be a vendor & craft fair, horseshoe tournaments, food and face painting, etc. Bring the entire family or just stop by and visit with the vendors.

There will be raffling going on with many great door prizes and a silent auction, too.

If you would like to donate items to our event or participate in the event please contact Patti Hanes at 371-8652 Vendor tables available $30 Non Electric-$35 Electric. Please contact Rick Valerio or Tony Valerio for the horseshoe tourney info or message Patti for details.

The event is being held at the Fire Department, 190 Riverside Drive New Miami, Ohio

https://www.facebook.com/#!/events/135141089949067/

As for me, I’ll be offering up some self-awareness and relationship information, a few gift options, along with a trinket or two…just for dropping by!

Stop by for a quick hello or stay a while. While you’re there, pick up a copy of Loving with Purpose…for yourself or someone who could use a boost to their self-esteem or a jump start in their relationship.

Look, relationships are hard, and being able to bring your best self to any situation is a must.

I look forward to seeing you there.

Kimberly Mitchell

May 15, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Events & Happenings, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

“It’s not fair ‘to’ you to be with someone who isn’t there ‘for’ you.” ~ Loving with Purpose

May 1, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Quotes To Inspire | , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

“Your children watch how you spend money.” ~ Suze Orman

April 23, 2012 Posted by | Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Quotes To Inspire, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

Recent Testimonial for Loving with Purpose

Standards, Expectations & Goals spreadsheet

This is EXCELLENT. I think you explained the differences between standards, expectations & goals quite clearly…and the list you included showed those differences. I actually intend on using the form myself…starting with jobs and education :-) Maybe relationships; if time can be given to any extra curricular activity. Still, I am open to it; where before, I was closed off from that thought. Thank you for all the work you’re doing on your blog and please keep me updated on your progress.” ~ MBB

April 18, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, More about Me, Religion and Spirituality, Testimonials | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

Excerpt from Loving with Purpose on Loaning

EXPECTED RETURNS: THE VALUE OF A LOAN

 

People are miles apart on the opinion of loaning possessions out. Some people “lend it and forget it,” while many others have the expectation of retrieving their items because they see the value in what they own. If you teach children to return what they borrow, they carry that lesson with them through life, and they learn to value and appreciate what others have worked to acquire.

 

To read more on dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.

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The Everlasting Items of Life…Adding Yourself to the Pay List.

As we walk through the various aspects of our lives, do we consciously recognize who we are, and do we know what we want, or do we sit back and wait to see what happens?

 Are we leading our lives, or are our lives leading us? Read more »

April 5, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Links For Your Journey, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment

A plan for success means a plan for success…

…not that LIFE or LOVE are smooth sailing vessels all the time. Success means learning how to live through ‘stuff’…with lessons…and more love in the end. There are tools to guide you in my book, Loving with Purpose. Find it HERE.

You can find me many places, but, here, you can read more about Loving with Purpose. See what the book offers you; clearer details about yourself, your situations, and your future. You don’t want to miss out on the rewarding changes you can make in your life. Simple, easy ways to make a difference…for you and your loved ones.

Consider this book your guide; one that is well-rounded,

including mates, family, and friends, but even more so…

the all-consuming topic of what else but….the main ingredient…you.

http://www.lovingwithpurpose.org

To read more on dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.

Follow me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/Loving_Purpose

Like me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LovingwithPurpose

April 3, 2012 Posted by | Abuse and Neglect, Change, Dating and Relationships, Family, Friendship, Helping Others, Religion and Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment