Recent Testimonial for Loving with Purpose
Standards, Expectations & Goals spreadsheet
“This is EXCELLENT. I think you explained the differences between standards, expectations & goals quite clearly…and the list you included showed those differences. I actually intend on using the form myself…starting with jobs and education 
Maybe relationships; if time can be given to any extra curricular activity. Still, I am open to it; where before, I was closed off from that thought. Thank you for all the work you’re doing on your blog and please keep me updated on your progress.” ~ MBB
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The Testimonial of a Man on the Road to Recovery
I recently spoke with a man who said that Loving with Purpose helped him understand dating again after his wife passed away over a year ago. I wanted to share his words in case there was someone else reaching out for some guidance on dating after losing a loved one.
He told me about his recent dating experience; probably his first after being a married guy for over forty years. Now, at sixty-six years old, he has to begin again…and as anyone who dates knows, it’s tough out there.
He told me that he treated his date like a lady; a princess, in fact. Offering flowers at each enc0unter, taking her to the finest of restaurants, and giving her extra special attention throughout the ten or more dates. Sounds good so far, yes???
He has always been under the impression that treating someone kindly, with special attention shown to the details, meant that typically that same appreciation or treatment would be reflected back on him. Sounds right, right???
Unfortunately, there are many women unaccustomed to being treated so well. His kindness and attention were probably a bit overwhelming to the normal, every day gal on the dating scene. Most guys don’t go to so much effort, so quickly, to show a woman they care. Plus, this man just started dating after forty years of marriage! He wasn’t ready for the plunge.
Now he understands what he needed to do. He needed to take the dating process much slower; taking time to learn who she is and what she wanted out of the connection. You can’t say anything bad about what he did in the dating experience, except people aren’t used to so much special attention. We take a little longer to warm up, especially when dating. Sure, there are always exceptions to the rule, but we are talking norm here.
Flowers on occasion are great, good food…always, but a little mystery as you move through the date will keep the flame lit while the two of you get to know each other.
His need of knowledge is one of the biggest reasons I wrote Loving with Purpose. I’ve been there, I know what dating has to offer, and I believe there is a better way than what I either did or accepted in the process.
We all have to start somewhere. Beginning with information makes the whole process go much smoother.
Before we talked, here’s the message he left for me. “Kim, I wanted to let you know that I’m reading the book you wrote. I’m just about a couple pages away from finishing it and I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate the book and your work. In reading some of the chapters, I just wish that I would have read this book several months ago instead of reading it now. In any event, I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your work and the quality of writing you offered. I found the book interesting and insightful. Thank you very much for writing it and I appreciated reading it.”
To read more on dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.
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Over the 10,000 Mark, Baby!…I Thank You!
Just as with other aspects of my life, there have been goals for Loving with Purpose. How many followers, friends, and likers have all been in my line of focus. One aspect that had gone unnoticed for a time has been the number of visits to the website; that is, of course, until the last few months.
As I kept note of the gradual incline, I found myself getting more and more anxious to reach more and more readers. Now, as of today, the first goal has been reached…and exceeded.
Loving with Purpose website and book are reaching more and more people every day, and feedback from you is also finding its way back to me. That is my blessing…knowing you’re there. For that, I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you…to all of you who have clicked, visited, and stayed with Loving with Purpose. If you keep coming, I’ll keep writing.
To read more on dating, relationships, family and friends, check out my book, Loving with Purpose.
Follow me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/Loving_Purpose
Like me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LovingwithPurpose
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Loving with Purpose ~ Nominated for the Versatile Blogger Award
It’s an honor to be nominated for “The Versatile Blogger Award”!
Thank you Enjoying the Family Life for nominating me. This award made my day. I’m inspired to continue on my quest; writing about relationships.
As per the rules of a nominee, I will:
1. Add the Versatile Award photo on a blog post
2. Thank the award-giver and link back to them in your post.
3. Share 7 things about myself.
4. Pass the award along to 15 favorite bloggers.
5. Contact the chosen bloggers to let them know about the award.
Seven facts I would like to share about me:
- I’m confident in myself, but question aspects of the world
- I don’t drink coffee, but love a cold pop
- I don’t smoke…anymore
- I like to eat, but the choices I make aren’t always the best (donuts, pizza). Come on 2012…better choices on a regular basis.
- At times, I speak before thinking; making me a work in progress. I remind myself to ”Seek first to understand, then be understood.” ~ Stephen Covey
- I’m a loyal and hard worker
- I love being a writer, and I’m proud to call myself the author of Loving with Purpose
- I must ask the questions, “why” and “what if” when it comes to making life choices.
And the bloggers I chose for this award are: (in no particular order)
The Fine Line Between Genius and Insanity
A Mother’s Journey Through Life
I like reading their blogs and life stories for doses of inspiration and entertainment. Let the blogging continue!
Kimberly Mitchell
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Testimonials of Loving with Purpose readers
Please share your thoughts about my book and website, Loving with Purpose. I love hearing what you have to say. Just click on the Comment link below.
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Now, if you have read all or part of Loving with Purpose and you have thoughts to share, please do…and happy reading!
Kim
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